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1. SEX - meeting up at one of your houses, not taken on very nice dates, you will hear the words â€śwhy go out when I can just stay in with youâ€ť. You havenâ€™t heard the words â€śI love youâ€ť or had a conversation about where the relationship is going- and youâ€™ve been together and intimate for awhile. There are no photos of you together or alone on his facebook, cellphone and doesnâ€™t mention you in his weekend plans on Twitterâ€¦
2. MONEY - this doesnâ€™t have to be a S.O. this can just be a friendâ€¦who plans trips and asks you to put it on your credit card so they can pay you back, they seem to say â€śOh I would go out this weekend but I have no moneyâ€ť hoping you will pickup the bill. At dinner they will offer to just pay the tipâ€¦When going someplace they suggest you drive so they donâ€™t have to pay for gas, they borrow your things and say they will pay you back but never doâ€¦
3. Make some else JEALOUS - complete opposite of being used for SEX, this person will ONLY be nice to you out in public or on their facebook or social networking sites, But when itâ€™s just you two the person might be preoccupied checking up on their REAL interest. Being this person will make you feel twice as stupid especially if you fall for them. Be aware if they move quickly and go public with your relationship faster than a normal rateâ€¦
4. SELF- ESTEEM - Similar to being used, this person might want to hang out with you or date you because of a status thing. If your job, your clothing, or your car are their points of conversation be sure thatâ€™s the only reason they are into you- to make themselves feel better.
5. CLIMB THE LADDER - they want to be you. OR if itâ€™s a love interest possibly they are using you to get close to you and then take your job or your position even being recommended into clubs and organizationsâ€¦
6. IMAGE - similar to being used for Self Esteem. How nice they are to you behind closed doors is a good indication if they really like you and arenâ€™t just using you at parties because you are hot. Guys do this more than women- They like to be seen with the hot girl and for her to look nice in public but donâ€™t put in the leg work to make the relationship worth anything..
7. COMPLETION OR HAPPINESS - This can be obsessive behavior. They call you 20 times a day they text you constantly â€“ they make plans with you way in advance and they only want you to hang out with them and become very sad if they canâ€™t be with you one night. Warning signs may include moodiness, stalking tendencies, and guilt trippingâ€¦you shouldnâ€™t be that persons happiness â€“ that needs to come from with in